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Dear Sterling Montessori School Parents,
        First of all, I would like to congratulate our Middle School Choir and Sue Anne Wright, their Director. The choir participated in a competition in Washington D.C. called America Sings. They practiced many hours and sponsored various fundraising activities to fund this trip. I had the privilege of hearing them prior to their departure and they were great. My congratulations to the Middle School Choir, Sue Ann Wright, and their families for this fine achievement.
        Once again, many thanks to the Parent Faculty Association (PFA) and all the parents that have donated time and participated in fundraising to fund the cultural arts presentations this year. The final event was today. A concert was held at the East Triangle Church, with the North Carolina Symphony's, woodwind quintet, "Symphony Winds". The students very much enjoyed them and the music was beautiful. A special thanks to Janet Littlejohn for planning these wonderful activities.
        The LHU Foundation Board of Directors, in the Spring of 2008, began an enthusiastic process to develop a strategic plan that would guide our school to ensure its future success. Last year extensive meetings were held to obtain input from all our constituencies: school board, staff, parents, students and administration. The Sterling Montessori Academy and Charter School Mission Statement and Guiding Principles have been approved by the LHU Foundation Board of Directors.
        The Mission Statement ad Guiding Principles were presented to the staff at a meeting in April. Two meetings will be held this month to present them to our parents. A morning coffee will take place on Thursday, May 14, 2009 at 9:00 A.M. in room A-10. An evening meeting on May 13th from 6:30-7:30 P.M.  in C16 will also be held to present these documents to parents as well as a question and answer session. Please plan to attend one of these informative sessions.
        This month is the final installment of tips for child development for parents. These suggestions apply to children ages 1 year to 3 years of age- the first half of the First Plane of Development- The Period if the Absorbent Mind. I hope these ideas have been helpful to parents.
 
Sincerely,
Bill Zajic
Executive Director

Developmental Planes
Twelve to Eighteen Months

Avoid interrupting your child when he/she is focused. Interruptions teach  a child to be distracted. Your child's internal thoughts will cultivate self-discipline, creativity, and positive perceptions about self and work. During these periods, your child is beginning to develop knowledge about himself/herself.

Create a new level of independence in the home when your child begins to walk. Enable your  child to care for his/her own needs by showing him/her in detail how to dress himself, brush his/her teeth, comb his/her hair, bath himself/herself and set the table. This aids in the development of the will (later resulting in passion and compassion), self-esteem, and confidence. When learned, these skills also relieve the parent of a bigger workload. It is important that certain aspects of the following rooms be accessible to the child: bedroom, kitchen, play area, and bathroom.
          a.)    In the bedroom, keep clothes in a small armoire or cabinet with easy to open doors. Separate clothes by dividers or shoeboxes labeled with pictures. Include only a few seasonal selections in every category of clothing (e.g., pants, shirts, sweaters, underwear, and socks) so that your child is not inundated with too many choices. Try to have clothes that are easy to put on, such as pants with elastic waistbands (zippers require more advanced skill), tops without buttons, and shoes with large Velcro straps. When making purchases, see if your child can manipulate the item on his own and test the item to assure that is does not resist mobility. Hang coat hooks at the child's level. Tie a loop of ribbon around the labels of your child's sweaters and coats so he/she can hang items on his/her own. Also, teach your child to put on his/her own jacket by the "tags to toes" technique- lay the coat on the floor in front of the child with his toes next to the tag/label of the jacket and show your child how to bend over and slide his arms into sleeves then swing the jacket over his head. Your child may enjoy having a mirror to see his outfit. A small hamper is helpful for dirty clothes.
           b.)    In the kitchen, have a low drawer where your child may keep his child sized cutlery, plates, bowls, cups, pitcher, and placemats that show placement of objects. Try to avoid plastic items. Put stools by all sinks. One way to help teach your child cold from hot is to place blue and red rubber bands on faucet handles.
           c.)     Be cautious about the number of toys in the play area. Organize items where they are visible and accessible. Refrain from using toy boxes because external order will lead to your child's internal order. A low bookshelf is a good way to display toys in small baskets or trays. At this age, your child will habituate quickly to toys, so rotate the toys every few weeks to keep your child interested and engaged. Try to use your child's interest in novelty to teach him/her about objects and the world around him/her.
           d.)    In the bathrooms, place stools by the sinks and again use rubber bands to signify water temperatures. Have a child-sized potty. It will also be helpful to make toilet accessible to your child by putting a stool in front of the toilet and having a potty ring on the toilet seat to narrow its opening. Have small towels for bathing on hooks at your child's height,. A small bowl, cup, or basket near the sink is a good way to store the toothbrush and toothpaste.

Offer your child a potty when he starts walking. Keeping detailed notes of urination times may help you guide your child to the potty when needed. Other than in the bathroom, you may want to have a potty in a central location where your child spends the most time (e.g., the family room). Be aware that is may be easier for your child to pull down cotton underwear than a diaper when attempting to use the potty. Diapers also whisk away moisture so your child may not be aware when he is wet. Avoid rewards (e.g., gold stars, candy, etc.) and punishments when potty training. Your child will use the potty when he is ready if it is easily accessible. This independence will add to his growing self-confidence.

Stop your child's disorderly behavior and redirect his energy whenever it arises. It is important that this be handled firmly, but kindly. Does not shame or humiliate your child. At this age, this can often be done by distracting the child and diverting his attention to other matters. When your child is having a conflict with another child, verbalize the issue in a simple, short, non-judgmental fashion to help resolve it.
 
Eighteen Months to Three Years

Slow down and work at your child's pace. Do not over schedule the day. Permit your child to fully absorb and reflect upon his activities.
Understand that your child may prefer to play alone or parallel play (I.e. play in the same area with another child but not directly interface). Your child may prefer to interact with an adult instead of other children. Be aware that older siblings/children may be frustrated by this orientation.

Provide limits and structure for your child. For your child to feel secure, he must experience clear, consistent and appropriate expectations, guidelines, feedback and enforcement/follow-through. It is important that parents agree on these and the rules that they establish. In addition, the rules should be consistent with the parents' values so the enforcement of the rules will not be problematic. A child should be presented with advanced warning of changes, either to limits or circumstances, which may lead to an act of parental enforcement. When not adhering to established limits, a child should be given choices regarding how to proceed and a firm but kind stance in the enforcement procedure.

Limit television watching, even in the background. The American Academy of Pediatrics recommends that children two and under should not be exposed to television. Television viewing may be harmful to language development, motor development (because of lack of physical exercise), nutrition (due to advertisements that promote food without nutritional value), focus/concentration (due to the fast-paced nature of the programming), social intelligence, creativity, and internal motivation.  Recent research has indicated that young brains have "mirror neurons" which cause a child to "experience" actions and emotions that are witnessed. In the instance of TV viewing, a child's brain may be literally experiencing the situations and emotions conveyed (e.g., violence and aggression). When exposed, this experience is being absorbed during your child's most vulnerable period of development. Television programs and commercials may also create a sense of envy for status and material possessions. Television may cause difficulty for your child to discern the difference between his wants and his needs.
 
Honor your child's work, ability to focus on details, and growing concentration by not correcting or interrupting him. Doing otherwise creates a dependence on adults and a loss of confidence in his abilities. For instance, refrain from commenting on unmatched clothes, inside out shirts, shoes on wrong feet, and the like. Instead, ask if your child is comfortable, and offer help if necessary.
 
Have your child share in the household work. This may include activities such as washing dishes, cooking, dusting, sweeping the floor, folding clothes, and watering plants. Showing your child how to participate as a productive member of the family and community sends an important message about his value and the importance of his contributions. Make sure cleaning supplies are non-toxic (e.g., vinegar and water for washing windows). Use child sized items when possible including brooms, mops, whisk brooms, watering cans, buckets, sponges, and towels. In the kitchen make available a cutting board, knife (use only under adult supervision), colander, vegetable peeler, mini grater, juicer etc.
 
Have a designated place for everything used by the child and teach your child to return items when his tasks are completed.  Remember, external order promotes internal order.  Have small baskets and trays to display toys, tools, and work with just a few small items per basket. Simplify and store extra toys in the closet to be rotated every two weeks.

Promote language and emotional development by engaging in meaningful conversation using specific, accurate speech and precise vocabulary. Be sure to listen and elaborate on what your child is saying. Other important ways to promote language development are through eating meals together and exploring nature together.
 
Set up a reading area. Have 4 or 5 nicely illustrated, well-written, non-fiction books displayed with covers facing your child (children have a hard time recognizing books by their spines). Incorporate reading time into everyday routine. Let everyone have a chance to read. If your child is not reading, ask him if he wants to tell a story from a book he knows.
 
Have an arts and crafts area where there is a low table and accessible art supplies. Art activities promote creativity as well as the development of fine motor skills, perceptual organization, sequencing, and analytic thinking. Organize the art area with only a few choices per medium (e.g., paper sorted by color, colored pencils, clay, glue, scissors, collage materials, beads with big holes, etc.).  An outside art easel may be used for painting with fingers or brushes. Have your child get into the habit of wearing an apron. This is not only protects the clothes, but signifies the importance of the activity and denotes a start and a finish to it.
 
Have an area for developing large motor skills. You may want to consider the following: obstacle courses, balance beams, tricycles, scooters, small trampolines with handles etc. Outdoor play structures are also good.
 
Dedicate an area to music. Your child will love to make his own music and listen and dance to CD's. It would be best if the CD player was operable by your child.
 
Enjoy nature together. At this age, your child can walk up to two miles (usually a child can walk his age in miles). Spend time outdoors exploring plants, insects, and rocks. Your child will be fascinated by what the world has to offer. Please follow your child's pace.

Do not explain things in too much detail. Your child is in the sensorial period of learning is optimized by hands on experiences.
 
End of Grade/End of Course Testing (EOG/EOC)
        EOG/EOC testing is almost here.  All students in grade 3-8 will take EOG tests in math and reading.  This will be done June 2,3, and 4th.  Students in grades 5 and 8 will also take a science EOG.  This will be done on Friday, June 5.  Middle School students that are taking Algebra or Geometry with Mr. Bert will also be taking an end-of-course test on Tuesday, June 9.  All makeups and retests will be done the last 2 weeks of school.
     NEW RETESTING POLICY: All students in grades 3-8 who score Achievement Level II on the first administration of the end-of-grade reading and mathematics assessments must be administered Retest 1.  All students at grades 5 and 8 who score Achievement Level II on the first administration of the end-of-grade science must be administered Retest 1.  Students in grades 7 or 8 who score Achievement Level II on the first administration of their end-of-course exam (i.e. algebra, geometry) will not have to retest.  Parents are NOT allowed to opt out of Retest 1 for Level II students.  Parents of students who score Achievement Level I MAY REQUEST that their children participate in Retest 1.  If your child scores a Level I, we will send you a letter informing you of this information and allowing you the option of having them retake the test. 
     Please contact Carrie Smith, 462-8889 x318, if you have any questions in regards to these tests or the new retesting policy.
 
Grant Reviews
           The 2009 Sterling Montessori Continuous Improvement Performance Plan update and the IDEA (Individual's Disabilities Education Act),  VIB & Sliver Grants, are available for review.  If interested, please contact Nevine Elshiekh at extension 459 or email nevineelshiekh@sterlingmontessori.org to schedule an appointment.

 
Summer Camps
        Due to the lack of participation for summer camps, we are sad to announce that we are forced to cancel all the summer camps with the exception of the Academic Enrichment Camp which still requires an additional 4 students, or it too shall be cancelled. We have extended the Academic Enrichment Enrollment until Friday, May 8, 2009 to recruit additional students. This camp is designed for rising Kindergarten and 1st grade students only. For additional information, or to register for this camp, contact Ms Marie Molin or Ms. Ursula Thompson. Refunds for deposits paid will be mailed to those who previously registered. Again, we are sorry for the cancellation. Contact Gena Jallad for a listing of people who are willing to provide babysitting services throughout the summer.
 
Next Semester
chours

It has been an exciting month for the members of the Middle School Chorus.  They gave an outstanding performance of American music in Washington, DC at the America Sings Festival. In addition to giving their own performance, the chours joined 2300 other singers to perform four pieces in a mass concert.  The festival was held on the National Mall, facing the Washington monument.  The entire event was outstanding.  Thank you to all who bought popsicles and Singing Valentine Grams.  A special thank you to the PFA for funding the van for the trip.
 
From the LHU Board
       I hope all of you have had a chance to review the 2008-2012 Strategic Plan that has been adopted. If not, I encourage you to review the Plan on our website and share in the excitement around our direction in the months and years ahead. On April 21st, the LHU Board presented the Strategic Plan to the staff and discussed its integration into the life of the school. The Mission Statement and Guiding Principles will be posted in each classroom and in public spaces around campus next week. Each teacher will be reviewing the Plan with their students. On May 13th and 14th, staff and parents will be invited to Community Sessions during which members of the Board will present the Strategic Plan and encourage discussion about plans for the future. Finally, all members of the Sterling community will be encouraged to attend the End of Year Picnic where we will celebrate our accomplishments as a community, and review the proposed Master Plan and timeline for campus-wide improvements.
 
          At the regular session of the LHU Board on April 21st, Lilly Skok Bunch, our partner who led Sterling through the Strategic Planning process, presented a report on a benchmark study that summarized strategies that other Charter Schools use to fund their capital expansions. Lilly is now working on establishing a constituent management system for Sterling which captures contact information for all families who have been involved with Sterling over the last nine years.  This system is an integral step in expanding our development efforts to include all Sterling families, past and present, and to create a way to communicate with them. 
 
          I'm thrilled to announce that the Board has unanimously voted to appoint Terri Hegeman as a Director on the LHU Board. Terri is a Major Gifts Officer at the Office of University Development at the University of North Carolina at Chapel Hill. Terri will chair the Development Committee that will be responsible for raising private philanthropic support to ensure continued growth and development of the school without impact to the operational budget. Please join me in welcoming Terri!
 
 
Regards,
 
Sharmila Bristol
President, LHU Board
 
Outstanding Student Acheivement
        Two of our students, Emily Fennell and Sara Littlejohn have completed their Girl Scout Silver Award as of April 30th, 2009.  This is the highest award bestowed up the Cadette Girl Scout, and they will be presented their awards at a banquet on May 19th, 2009. Each scout contributed more than 40 hours of service to a specific segment of the community.
        Emily's project included speaking engagements to talk about domestic violence with peers and adults (covering the warning signs, where to go to help, and what you can do to help others); and involving others through a call for jewelry donations for Interact and making jewelry to sale at the Interact store and making hemp bracelet kits for donation to the women and teens at Interact.  
        Sara's project also focused on helping people that have been victims of domestic violence.  Her project included helping the children at Interact by involving her peers in making bead animal jewelry kit donations, where she created detailed instructions for the kits.  Sara also made a call for jewelry donations to Interact, and spoke with her friends about the impact that domestic violence has on children.
        Congratulations Emily and Sara. Sterling is very proud to have students such as yourselves as a part of our school and community!

Interact of Wake County  is a private, non-profit, United Way agency that provides safety, support, and awareness to victims and survivors of domestic violence and rape/sexual assault. Interact fulfills this mission through the support of its volunteers and community.
 
Sterling's Film Festival
 
Sterling's Film Festival
10th annual Sterling Film Fest 2009
When: June 18th
Time: 6:30 PM
Where: East Triangle Church, 1000 Perimeter Park.

Needs: For a movie scene I am looking for any braces, crutches, wheelchairs or
anything else that a person would use who is injured.
Contact : Mr. Russ in C7 or email questions to HolySmokes1988@aol.com.

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